Centuries are gone by, mindsets, norms and values are changed. Numbers of people have adopted optimistic living styles but still the society is full of pessimists too. For many, life is incomplete without cursing others.
Life is a mixture of feelings and emotions where people possess different thoughts. Some love to curse others while some either lit a candle or try to be candle, which burns itself to light the way for others. It is much better to do something about a problem instead of complaining. We must look at a positive aspect and hope for the best because sun shines after a dark night and the one who is focused towards success drags out light of optimism from the darkness of curse. Lighting up a candle causes nothing bad, as thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle.
As Sarmad Tariq
To whome I met in (KAHO – YOUTH TALK SHOW , which was he production of BLACK BOX & THINK TWICE PAKISTAN)
“The Chairman” motivates the youth of today by narrating his real life story and seriously motivated me by telling that at the age of 15 , after meeting a swimming accident he was paralyzed from the left shoulder down and confined to a wheelchair. After this accident he did not lose hope but cultivated the stems of positivity and he was the first wheelchair bound athlete to participate in Lahore marathon and completed race in 7 and a half hours , he qualified to represent his country in New York and returned with a finishers medal.
This taught me , that every living being go through a dark moment but if we keep on cursing it , either it will make us a moron or we end up a death. So we must believe on the fact that all the darkness in the world can not extinguish the light of a single candle. At times in lonesome nights I question myself and seek for the answer that what is the reason that it gets too difficult for people to lit a candle? If they are unable to lit it , then they do not have any rights to curse others. Keeping in mind the fact that they themselves are the roots of curse. To light a candle is to cast a shadow. Whenever somebody tries to light a candle, he defines his character through it and becomes inspiration for others and the chain of inspiration and admiration goes on as a single candle can light up many more. Candles tell us that we live by learning as much as we burn ourselves people get light from us. This is a special reason that our teachers our known as candles because they consume their energy to enlighten us with the knowledge they possess.
We must remember that there is a candle in each and every soul. Some burning, some dark and old but all busy in seeking out the helpless and the poor and the deceived. Many candles can be kindled from 1 without diminishing it. It is due to light of candles that from a baby till an adult get a smile on his birthday while blowing a candle and making a wish.
“They say that instead of cursing the darkness, one should light a candle. Nothing is mentioned, though, about cursing a lack of candles.”
by George Carlin