We all are liars. Generally to make people believe us we use the term that we all are equal. Equal for the man kind or as sent by the God all equal. It is just another way of satisfaction, but the reality is always different and believe me.
Life is not a fairly-tale it is a reality and reality is always sad! – Fatima Hasan Zaidi
Finally surprised I m at myself because knowing a lot of things I always kept myself in an illusion. well I still do. Just because all the times I do not want to face the anxiety attacks.
So I prefer not to bother about what is the next outcome of the stupidity I m going to do right at any moment. As I want to fully enjoy the life I have. Indulging my self in illusions keep me away from negative thinking though.
Same it is we often hear that love is blind. So, is equality but the only difference is that, people who fall in love; fall for each other despite knowing the specifications about the other. It is something so pure that has no answer to the question that
Why did you fall in love?
Loving someone does not get you into the details of caste, creed, color, face, height, weight, religion, sect etc. It happens out of nowhere. That is why, it is said that love follows no religion. Animals we love follows no religion too. Love is all about selflessness. This is what love is to me…
Keep your eyes here, soon I shall post in verses that what is love but love demands equality. I know writing here I am not specific about the heading I stated above But I write to escape the anxiety attacks I go through.
Every year the beginning of the June was so joyful. I had plans of how to surprise him on Father’s Day and after you left the start of the month is so depressing.
I miss him each passing day but at times the desire to touch him, to be wrapped in his arms, head on his chest, his palm on my head, his voice uttering my name is so strong that no other thing and no other being can fulfill his absence.
As the days are passing by, I am encountering success, with each successful moment. I miss him even more. In crowd, in the moments of merrymaking; my eyes wander to and fro just to have your look around. I stop at places I smell your fragrance at.
Every such day, or a month enlisting such days; is a throbbing reminder of his deficiency in my life.
And dear ‘so called perfectionists’ of the society, I am not answerable to anybody for what I write but Allah only. And I write what I feel.
Thoughts burn in my heart when I see elderly people doing obnoxious stuff in the sacred month of Muharram, between the Aashura specialy. People full of knowledge do not see the positivism of the Majalis going around, they never take out minutes to listen any thing to clear their own disturbed thoughts exclaiming things about Shia Sect that mourn over the month.
Instead they try to find out the sarcastic stuff and talk over it then share it over the social media.. Wow, indeed for such people who see the photo shopped photographs put lines over it and post it as “INNOVATION” in Islam. One can clearly recognize if blood is shown with colors or some thing is genuine out there.
I am no scholar but just a believer of Imam Hussain (A.S), I write just when thoughts prove me to think.. Just one thing to ponder upon is that, I will directly say non believers of Imam Hussain A.S are those who instead of mourning upon HIS loss, start blabbing around on others with various statements. Often we listen ” Shia Kafir” those who speak bad about a sect of Islam are the ones who hurt their fellow Muslims exclaiming themselves to be the great one.
In this scenario why do they forget that.
It is stated in QURAN not to hurt.
By which Allah guides those who pursue His pleasure to the ways of peace and brings them out from darkness into the light, by His permission, and guides them to a straight path. (5:16)
Since the childhood we listen that deeds of a person will remain with the person who is doing so, it will not affect others in surroundings so why does the living by people are affected by MOURNING and MATAM others do. That should not be and understand that Allah may not ask them that why you were after that fellow to stop mourning.
The thing is do these kind of people do everything as stated in the Holy Book. Do they not lie? Do they not hurt others? Do they behave very well with their relatives? Do they not hurt people by their taunts? Do they not backbite. In short if these people are perfect in practicing the teachings of Islam, they may do so or stop people but when they are not perfect they must work on themselves not to create mess over web as part of the proxy wars.
It is a common thing that when a loved one dies you have no control over yourself. You cry, you behave in a different way because you lose your consciousness and crying or mourning over a loved one is not wrong so people should keep their filthy thoughts to themselves though it be Moharram or some ones death.
When you loose a loved one you start to understand the meaning of mourning of the Karbala more because when you see a death from so close ; you start to feel the pain of those who were martyred by the so called Muslims of that time.
Those who say that crying is wrong over a dead may increase their knowledge as it is not an innovation (.
Quran details the crying of the skies and the earth in the Quran;
- And neither heaven nor earth shed a tear over them: nor were they given a respite (again). (44:29)
So, all must see themselves and stop poking their noses around, because others mourning will not bother you in your grave and you are nobody to work on what others believe and others will never change the religious practice because of anybody..
Simply, who can not feel the pain of Imam Hussain A.S and the love for HIM by his believers should go and read about it instead of asking others to tell them about Imam Hussain A.S. and reading for increasing self knowledge is as well verily stated in Quran.
(96:1 – 5)
Read in the name of your Lord who created. Created man from a clinging substance. Read, and your Lord is the most Generous. Who taught by the pen . Taught man that which he knew not.